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Showing posts with label wisdom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wisdom. Show all posts

Friday, 15 March 2019

How To Improve Yourself In The Next 3-5 Years


It is absolutely human of us to want instant success, instant gratification, instant happiness and instant wealth. But on the other hand, it becomes another torment just thinking about what we are facing right now in comparison to our expectation of instant goodness of life. We feel that this deal is too good to be true after trying some things that are out of our comfort zone and expecting some good reward out of it.

When building your 20 one bedroomed apartment, it will take you 6-9 months depending on the factors of architecture and financing for its completion and maybe on the 9th month with favorability swinging your side, you may get tenants filling all your 20 units. But wait, for you to enjoy rent, you have a loan to pay and remember the bank granting you a loan gave you a grace-period which is interest accrued and you must pay as an additional cost to your loan. It may take you, let say 3-5 years to complete paying the loan but is worth it? Yes, it is.

As patient as a certain landlord paying his loan for 20 units apartments so we ought to be patient to build ourselves in which your rewards will be experienced in 3 to 5 years to come according to your life purpose.  Let’s glide into the 7 take home points that you can bank on.
1.   Go the extra mile- Don’t ask permission to give more and better service to your family, your employer, your friends, your neighbors or even your enemies, just do it. Get into the habit of doing extra and in a special way and mark excellence. We should expect excellent things so we must contribute to excellence by going the extra mile.
2.   See value in people- Treat people with value, which instinctively means value yourself, then you will be able to value others and the value will return to you. In short, be human to all regardless of race, tribe and creed.
3.   Invest in yourself – You can never be better than who you are today without reading, studying and learning. It doesn’t mean you need a Ph.D. in what you do but to identify what is your purpose, then with the curiosity of a child start to ask the right questions to what you can do to achieve your purpose. You can enroll courses related to your purpose, attending seminars or just buy books which is the most inexpensive form of education- Someone spends the time to write them in order to add value to our lives (an investment made to you if you only choose to read these books)
4.   See value in what you do- with a purpose in hand, you will understand what you are doing is important. It may be your job, your salary, your loans/debts and your assets. Your job may be employment or your own business. You value it so that you can concentrate on bringing the value of excellence and we know that excellent things are surely rewardable. Your salary for the employed is the main source to build up your own financial dynasty for your family. Your loans and debts play a big role in bringing your vision of success much faster than your savings can do within the reason of investment not spending.  Your assets are the fruits originating from your job, your salary, your savings, your investment loans and your sole efforts of going the extra mile.
5.   See value in failure- There are many things we understand outside the arena of failure but we get something new something profound in our failure if we choose to look at it that way. Failure is not in a real sense permanent but a temporary defeat. It has a time limit in that it has a beginning and an ending. Like Robert Kiyosaki puts it Being broke is temporary, but poverty is eternal. Poverty is looking at failure like it is permanent – we are not learning, we are hopeless, we are resentful of other people’s progress and we loathe ourselves. That is poverty – burying your one talent in the earth and blaming everybody for your fear of failure. Failure being temporary is a guide with a universal language showing you the wrong way so that you can look further to the right road to your purpose.
6.   Try something new – It’s insane to do the same thing over and over again and expecting different results as well stated by Albert Einstein. Deliberately, go the extra mile to do something new but we must be clear about this. We must first learn about it, study it and practice it to achieve mastery and produce excellent quality from our service.
7.   Retire early – “I never resign until I die” (our African Politician mindset) should not be existing in our minds, our hearts or our purpose. Retire early means working hard with the purpose of being financially independent. It is earning from our inner resources without necessarily working because you have but because you want to.
8.   Bonus- Carry heavy- We should seek not to meet our daily needs, our monthly needs but our semi-annual needs and annual needs. We ought to focus on how to afford to live our lives unchanged at the face of unemployment or financial disaster that may occur in our lives. It is not about you and your family. Seek to be more productive, financially free, more generous, more supportive, more intelligent, more creative and more and more. Carry heavy means to build yourself to more dependable, reliable, loyal, positive and more faithful to meet your family, your friends, your neighbor and your enemies. Have something you in your pocket at all times- financial threshold in your wallet that can assist you or your fellow man’s needs.




Wednesday, 6 September 2017

Sweet Victory

Sweet victory


"We were made to achieve victory, it is in our hands."
At this day and age, we find ourselves working hard and/ or smart using our skills, talents and experience towards our goals. We struggle to achieve our own goals which we set for ourselves by again achieving goals which have been set by others for us to achieve. We have the drive to work towards these goals for it will improve our lives to combat with the mishaps of life. This is the sweet victory I am talking about.
We work so hard to enrich ourselves which is not a bad thing so long as you are not overambitious. God is pleased with such diligence and blesses the works of our hardworking hands (Heb 6:10). When you compare yourself with your brother, sister, classmates and age mates and it becomes a constant reminder by your parents of how Frank and Mary doing well in their lives. This dawns to you on how you are a failure. You are by no means a failure in any way you may look at yourself. You have to learn how to see your opportunities and how to salvage them to being victorious according to God’s plan.
I love watching DC and Marvel comic TV shows. Just to get your attention; The Flash, a speedster who is able to run faster than a speeding bullet and break the sound barrier, the light barrier, time barrier and dimensional barrier. This means he can at will travel back and forth of time, into the multi-universe and tremendous abilities of running vertical over buildings and above water and vibrating his body to phase through oblique objects. But fictional as it is, he cannot change bad events with good ones as it will affect the time continuity and hence his own very existence and his loved ones. This means at some point, having speed or no speed, time and its events are unquantifiable to us. Bad events will be replaced by worse ones or the very good ones can also replaced by catastrophic ones. And that is why we need to have God in our lives (Psalms 31:15; John 1:3 Colossians 1:16)
Remember, we cannot rely on our understanding for we cannot fathom the architectural framework of our time. This means that if we rely  on our understanding, we will be acting of our own selfishness, arrogance, enviousness, jealousy and all things that say, ”me me me” building that skyscraper called greed.
So having the urge of grasping victory in our hands we need to have the essential ingredients for this sweet victory we are cooking. The ingredients are as follows:
  • God
  • Time
  • Wisdom
  • Hope 


God as the first ingredient

God as the first ingredient is the architect of all things visible and invisible and nothing was created without him. (Colossians 1:16-17, Genesis 1:1, Psalm 19:1, Hebrews 11:3, Isaiah 42:5). We can put our trust in Thee to lead us for we are in total darkness. Yesterday goes away and it is forgotten, tomorrow never comes and today and now is what we deal with so total darkness in deed. “ I am the light of the World. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life,” Jesus said (John8:12) So press the “follow” button on your bible as you tell Him your goals, your plans to achieve your goals through prayer and surely he will be the help you so needed.

Time as the second ingredient

Time is an unquantifiable unit of continuous progress of existence and events. Time is quite important for it entails God giving you existence through birth, passing through the stage of life (i.e. childhood, youth, middle-age and old age) and the joy and pain that comes with it. The time confinement teaches us to be patient as the Architect does his wonderful works so long as you believe in Him. (Isaiah 40:31, Psalm 27:14; 31:24, 40:1, 62:5, 130:5).
His timing is perfect for it is moment of glory to show His might and sheer ability to the whole World and the Heavens overall. Secondly, it is an act of love to all who believe and depend on Him in all times (Psalm 62:5; 18:2, 37:2, Isaiah 41:13 Phil 4:6). Thirdly, it is a learning process and when we are encountering challenges we will achieve victory and lack nothing (James 1:2-4)

So with time, we learn what we are taught from events of time and experiences which widens your scope of thinking and apply the understanding gained to achieve the sweet scent of victory